hi.

you did a good thing by reaching out on here and posting.

let me tell you: their's nothing at all to feel unsafe about. all of us here undderstand, and none of us are going to say you're making it up or lying.

plus, what you need to remember is, each did system is diffrent

just because someone says, for example: all the parts are the same gender, that's not the same for everyone- you can have the diffrent genders, and even non human parts of yourself.

do you know how many parts you have?

if it feels safer, maybe just read right now- and comment on things you can relate to

but we are here when ever you need us- for when ever you want to talk about it