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Originally Posted by fille_folle
I don't know, I think you can sometimes tell if someone is insincere by comparing what they say and what they do.
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I wasn't trying to criticize your poll; just saying what I have found to be true.
I can think of examples like "I'm a vegetarian" and then they eat a sackful of burgers, that's more hypocrisy than insincerity.
My T doesn't say a lot of things that would warrant a judgment (and it is one, which is the other problem) of sincerity or lack thereof. I can think of a time where he said he wanted to help me with something very much, please tell him what he could do. I believe he wanted to help me, why wouldn't he?
I don't find it useful to inquire about anyone in my life's sincerity. But if others do, have at it.