My T is this weird mix of warm and supportive but also, like, no-nonsense. It's sort of like a teacher at my elementary school who everybody described as tough but fair. That teacher was generally well-liked but you knew better than to mess with her. So my T is mostly warm fuzzies and kind and patient but also has strong boundaries and can be a bit stubborn. Mostly I feel safe and warm and close to her, but she's tough enough that I don't hesitate to rage at her when the situation warrants it.