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Old Jan 23, 2018, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Anne2.0 View Post
I wasn't trying to criticize your poll; just saying what I have found to be true.

I can think of examples like "I'm a vegetarian" and then they eat a sackful of burgers, that's more hypocrisy than insincerity.

My T doesn't say a lot of things that would warrant a judgment (and it is one, which is the other problem) of sincerity or lack thereof. I can think of a time where he said he wanted to help me with something very much, please tell him what he could do. I believe he wanted to help me, why wouldn't he?

I don't find it useful to inquire about anyone in my life's sincerity. But if others do, have at it.
Gotcha. I listed that option because there seems to be a recurrent theme on this forum where people wonder if their Ts really care, or are just pretending. That's sort of what I was trying to get at.

And don't get me started on fake vegetarians, as I am a veggie myself and find the hypocrisy maddening!
Thanks for this!
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