I like brainy, well-read (of whatever the sort they like to read, "all" "my" men have been into history), articulate men and T is one of them. He is mostly patient and kind, with some mild outliers. Perceptive, although I once did a sand tray where he was represented by a monk with his head in the sand. He still brings that up from time to time.

I would not see a T who possessed any of many of these traits (mean, stupid, judgmental, etc). I haven't looked for a blank slate sort but I think that would be fine if otherwise a match.

Insincere and other such traits that we can't really know, I take people at face value as I can't really stand to deal with anything else. If you offer your donkey for me to borrow, I'm going to take you up on it. If you say you can see me on your lunch hour on Thursday for an emergency appointment, I'm taking that. I don't have enough time to try to figure out what people really mean, so I try to interpret as little as possible and ask for clarification whenever I can.