Possibly an alternative question.

My friend’s kid sent me 3 questions for an assignment he has to do. I sent them to my ex therapist and stand-by therapist to answer about me. They responded right away. I Told my current therapist sh me could change love to like since some therapist have an aversion to using the L word with clients. She didn’t. She wrote: “What I Love about you is...” I never really thought about her loving me most likely because I got enough from my ex therapist. Yet, I am secure in what she provides and I can definitely say she does love me without asking directly.

▪What do you love about me?
▪What drives you nuts or bothers you about me?
▪What recommendations would you make to me?