My exH Is 66 & from all I experienced in the marriage & after I left, researching alk the behavioral details, thete is nithing about him that doesnt fit the dx but sadly he refuses to get dx'ed. It would allow him to get the help he needs if he would as he is really imcapable of handling anything financial for himself & will end up homeless if he continues in the direction he is going. He can't even make his house payment & has allowed the house we own to go into foreclosure twice since I left & totally ignored the IRS because he is not capable of communicating or dealing with problems he gets himself into.

It is so important to get the dx to get the support needed for where ever one lies on the spectrum. Each person's abiluties are so individual on the spectrum that it is important to know each persons strengths & weaknesses to get help with....something that doesnt happen if a dx isn't received. Now he is totally in control of his life, it has become obvious that this is seriously effecting his life in a negative way without having help a dx could provide. I live 2100 miles away but he has effected my credit because my name is still on the house loan so I am well aware of what is going on & can't get him help without him having the DX that proves the need