I would most definitely have questions and concerns...mostly "What are you looking for?" and "Does that mean I can snoop on your Facebook too?" and "If you have questions about me, doesn't it seem like you should just be able to ask them?" If he said that he was doing it for safety reasons, I'd probably be ok with it...but not for things to bring up in therapy. I did google him once to see if he was a rapist or had any ethics violations, so I guess it would be fair.

My therapist had something like "We are not friends, so don't ask me to friend you on Facebook," only I think he worded it more nicely. That was ok by me. His facebook is probably boring anyway.