If I were in your position, I'd want her to give me examples of things I said that made her feel attacked. Sometimes we don't know how things we say come across. Until that is understood, it's hard to prevent that from happening in the future. THAT would be something she could do to help you instead of just making you feel bad with no idea behind what your so-called offenses are. If you ask her for examples, try to do so carefully, because she is obviously sensitive. If she won't answer directly, then be happy to move on.

Sounds to me like she has some level of negative countertransference going on. It's a lot more common than you'd might think. It is likely her issue and not anything you really did/ said. In any case, I'm sorry you have to deal with this. I've dealt with something similar.