Everything of me online is public information so I guess at least he says he is going to check you out. I google any T left, right, upside down to Sundays. Sorry it is what I do. I feel a compelling need to shift the power differential by knowing something about them that they are not telling me.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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