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Originally Posted by ArcheM
I kind of have to wonder, how you'd prevent someone from snooping on your Facebook. And why that would concern you (I don't mean that aggresively, but can't find a more curiosity-like form). I mean, that's extremely publicly available information that you made such... I don't know. I kind of can't understand it right now... Why would that be a transgression? I guess maybe this comes with social isolation, since I don't even have anyone to look up (outside of actors, and even that just on imdb).
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I think partly because it's up to the client when to disclose things. His seeking out information about me is kind of like him pressuring me to talk.
A second reason for me is due to the nature of one of my traumas-I was stalked and raped. So that sort if interest and behaviors are triggering to me. Also is the feeling he's being voyeristic, which also relates to traumas. There were more than a few times where men idealized me, which also scared me in terms of sexual abuse triggers, so excessive interest (in context of the therapy relationship) can be triggering.
I had another reason but it slipped my mind.