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Old Jan 24, 2018, 09:57 AM
dovdov dovdov is offline
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Originally Posted by golden_eve View Post
I have two interviews today and tomorrow and I already feel I am not going to do well.

Being demoted in my job has effected my confidence greatly, and I still have no answers from HR as to why or what happened... if it was due to my performance or strategies.

I know I am going to fail these interviews and. not get a job offer. I might as well just throw in the towel now and accept that I am a big fat failure in my career.
It sounds like this job wasn't the right fit, especially with a poor manager. Yet you would have stayed and remained miserable if you hadn't been demoted. That's a sure way to live your days in misery. So try to look at this as a major opportunity. Freedom to refresh and do something you like more. Your history shows you're not a failure. Take 10 minutes twice a day and close your eyes and remember a time you did well, feel the emotion, fell as if you are doing well now in a new job, and that you will find a great job and that you are worth a great job. Imagine showing confidence in those interviews... Do this to re-program those bad thoughts you are having.