My family ignores me most of the time. I got used to it. I call and they don't answer or they tell me they're busy. I know how you feel. I found this place and it has helped me to vent. I think I tell most of my problems on here because my family does not listen to me. It is sad but I realized rather late in my age that my family is really dysfunctional. So, now I just accept their behavior as expected and nothing unusual.