I have been reflecting on love languages lately, and its something that I have never given much thought to while in a relationship. My last relationship we had different ones while some of the same. For instance I love quality time and affection (touch and being close). I realized with what I wanted it what I was projecting, while she like words of affirmation and reminders on verbally that I still loved her. Although deep down I knew this but it didnt resonate deep down. I hardly remember a time when I was told "I love you" when I was younger. I never heard my grandfather tell my grandmother, but thet were married for 60 years and she knew he did and they had a amazing marriage.

It totally seems like in todays world it almost critical to the success if not the most important thing in a relationship or marriage.

This may be a good discussion. If there are different love language then how tough is it to adapt and concsiously keep that in mind? Or does it just fit for a LTR