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Old Jan 24, 2018, 02:58 PM
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Originally Posted by musinglizzy View Post
My therapist does this, and it makes me VERY angry! Her phone is always right next to her...and if a text goes off, she can't stand not looking at it. She has also answered the phone, or a text, or made a call during my session. She knows I hate it. It's hard for me to see her get a text, also, because she used to allow me to text her, and now she has a rule, no texting with clients. So I guess it makes me a little jealous when I see other people text her. She can't seem to sit down without having her phone next to her and I hate it!
That would make me really angry too. And it might even be enough to change therapists if she kept doing it. How old is she? Is this a generational thing? I turn my cell phone off during a session. I figure people can live without me for an hour. I would expect a therapist to be able to focus for an entire hour without playing with the phone. My husband can't, but I'm not paying him to pay attention to me.