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Originally Posted by TheSadGirl
My dad was unexpected (hit by a car) and my mom was expected (cancer). The biggest difference between the two for me was not being able to say goodbye to my dad. That caused me a lot of pain.
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I agree with you on this. I think that's the biggest thing is not be able to say good bye, I love you, or discuss past issues. So many unanswered questions. Where as expected you know what's happening, time you have, have time to make peace with it.
Sorry for your loss of both.
