I have seen a Surrogate Partner (new term for Sex Surrogate). It did wonders for me. I was too nervous and shy with women at the beginning. If you still refer back to your post here I can help with any questions.

And note, if you go this route you must also be seeing a therapist or other professional. If a surrogate sees you without one it is prostitution and illegal. And don't think it is an easy to to pay way for sex, because you will likely be screened out at the beginning. And an escort or similar would be MUCH cheaper.