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...one TRUTH.......................Fertility and the issues that surround it & being childless are SEPARATE ISSUES. Obviously, they do intersect, but must be considered and dealt with separately. It took me a lot of therapy to finally figure that out.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> THANK YOU so much for sharing that tulips!! as a person of adoption we're often struck how often this is confused and tangled up in the minds of many.

to the OP thank you so much for this thread. a very compassionate and interesting look at the issues surrounding your topic.