hmmm, well, I'm sure her mother is saying the same thing too. Thank you for the clarification. You see, I feel for Golden Eve. I feel her pain. Yes, I have to admit I'm spoiled and may be can't understand the reasons why people take any job. I used to be homeless and was a stripper for awhile. I know the need for working and paying the bills. However, it does not define me. So, yes, we should encourage her to take any job, but if this is the case she should look outside her field and just take anything that pays the bills. I am hoping she can find something she wants one day. But, may be reality is inevitable and she must take any job to survive. Even if she does a job she does not want, I would not judge her as being any less. I hope she can feel the same way about herself too. I did not mean to sound idealistic but hope she finds a job and inner peace as well.

Her situation is an emergency and she needs to take drastic measures to survive. I understand finally. Like I said, I have been there and done that but am a bit spoiled now. I am taking my time and luxury to choose the best job for me. I admit I am not starving nor homeless now. But, if she is in such a precarious situation, don't listen to my advice but listen to your mother's and your own. I just don't like it when people mean well and it does not end well. Best wishes, Golden Eve!!