hmmm, well, I'm sure her mother is saying the same thing too. Thank you for the clarification. You see, I feel for Golden Eve. I feel her pain. Yes, I have to admit I'm spoiled and may be can't understand the reasons why people take any job. I used to be homeless and was a stripper for awhile. I know the need for working and paying the bills. However, it does not define me. So, yes, we should encourage her to take any job, but if this is the case she should look outside her field and just take anything that pays the bills. I am hoping she can find something she wants one day. But, may be reality is inevitable and she must take any job to survive. Even if she does a job she does not want, I would not judge her as being any less. I hope she can feel the same way about herself too. I did not mean to sound idealistic but hope she finds a job and inner peace as well.