So my husband and I got into an argument because we were watching a show that's about different crime related scenes. It's one of our favorite and we enjoy watching it. Sometimes when watching the show my husband would say certain things out loud that bother me, sometimes I'll let it slide but he's been saying it so much all this week that I just had to tell him to stop. For example, if the girl in the show got raped he will say "That's what she gets" or if the guy hits the girl he'll say "That's good for her cause she was dancing with someone else" ..and I would say "Stop saying those things".. I know he's joking. He's saying it in a sarcastic tone, but I've told him before I just don't like to hear those type of jokes, that's all.. especially when it comes to rape or domestic violence.

I know it's a show but it's reflecting something that occurs in real life that I personally feel a certain way about. Mind you, we can joke around with each other and he knows that, I just don't like THOSE types of jokes. And it frustrates me because when I say something he doesn't agree or like he would put his foot down and make sure I know my place. So it's the same way if I were to say something that he didn't like then I would just try my best not to say it.

We got into this huge argument cause he says he cant even joke around and that I ruined our weekend, and that I am an instigator and this lead us to argue and things get ugly when we do.. he just doesn't seem to understand me and I understand his point of view, he's entitled to say whatever he wants and I respect that so if he wants to continue 'joking' like that, that's cool.. then he would just have to deal with me saying stop it..