Apparently having a conversation about it with him doesn't help out right now cause I know he's still mad (maybe later on). Cause right now, One thing leads to the other and we just end up continue arguing. He simply doesn't understand, he says everyone jokes around about those things. And he said fine if you don't like it I wont say it, but continued arguing. He's also mad about the fact that I went to sleep without talking to him, but I did that due to arguing. I know he doesn't like it when I do that, but what's the point of continue arguing with someone. We spoke about couple counseling before.. but never got to it, no money no insurance.

He puts his foot down because he has a short temper he tends to snap quickly. And fine, I am not saying I'm perfect either I have my flaws as well.. I am an anxious person. I just dont understand why we cant sit down and talk like adults. Maybe I am being too sensitive because I personally can't relate to being raped (can't say the same about domestic violent though, I have personal feelings about that) but I don't have to be a victim about something to simply say I don't like it