Nope, not at all. When we usually joke around we both have a sarcastic tone because we're being goofy. I think it just naturally comes out because if we're fine with each other at that moment then he doesn't think nothing of it. I don't think he intentionally says it to make me feel a certain way at least not when it comes to domestic violence/rape. The problem is he knows I don't like those types of jokes because over the past couple of the days, he's said something similar and I've said "ugh damn stop saying that" maybe he didn't think I was being serious before (?) only that this time it actually lead to us arguing.