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Originally Posted by TheSadGirl
2 years ago a long time friend ended our friendship without warning or an explanation. I had a total meltdown. He triggered my abandonment issues and I totally fell apart. I didn't see it coming and I went from okay to barely functioning.
That's my worst experience. I hate issues. I hate triggers. Sometimes I hate stupid feelings.
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You didn’t deserve to be treated like that!
This happened to me once. I had a friend that was a roommate too, so we were really close. She met a guy and suddenly there was no contact or explanation. I was so devastated.
She showed up years later with a baby and no warning, wanting to come over. I said no. I should have hung up on her.
She has since said it was the controlling boyfriend. Whatever. Anyone can give the courtesy of an explanation. My mom had helped her financially too. She never returned the favor.
This was someone I judged to be of good character. I can’t stand thinking about this much longer!