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Old Jan 25, 2018, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted by garylawn View Post
hi im 53 male i am a serial cheater for 2 decades married. my wife lifes ruined & not doing good. shes willing to fix it . what can i do to fix the marriage im at wit end. im also a liar. have some traits of narrsisim. i really would appriaciate the help. anything to help my wife heal & fix marriage

Thank You


Your wife had nothing to “ fix” I don’t understand your wording ? Maybe you meant she’s willing to stay in the marriage ! But whatever,

Only you can change you.

What is your motivation this time to not cheat ?

I hope your wife is seeing a Therapist to help her manage all this emotional turmoil you are putting her through.

You also need a Therapist to help you discover what drives your inability to be faithful. Life long cheating is going to be very hard to stop falling back into.

I wish you luck on becoming a good faithful husband.
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