I guess I'm too old for therapy and had silly notion that therapists were there to guide and help a person. Had no idea it was about going in and spilling my inner most painful memories, only to have the therapist not acknowledge what I shared, then they have nothing to offer as to why, or what to do about what's bothering me, but they do remember to collect the fee and schedule another appointment.
I watched this Kati Morton video on what Therapists think.
She says she throws out some crumbs so the client can figure out themselves what's going on. Wouldn't it be easier to just say what you thought was going on, discuss it, and make a treatment plan instead of dragging it out and doing more harm to the client? Okay, getting off the soapbox.