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Originally Posted by Betrayed92
I just talked to my husband after a month of not hearing a word from him, and I just feel terrible about my self. He still blames me for him cheating on me and for him going to live with his lover. He told me that he hates me for going through with the divorce instead of trying to work things out with him, and he told me that I'm taking the easy way out of our marriage. I know that he is toxic for me, but I still love him and a part of me feels like maybe he is right about what he said to me. I feel like I don't know if I still want move on from him, or if I should try to work things out. I really need some advice.
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It's good you are honest about how you feel. What do you feel he is right about what he said to you? Sometimes it helps me to make competing lists to try to work things out and make a decision: the 'pros and cons'... like why you should try to work things out vs. why you shouldn't try.
What is it that you love about him?
I'm not suggesting you doubt yourself, only that exploring all the facets in your mind for a little while might be helpful.
Divorce is really tough to go through but opens up a world of better possibilities down the road.