yikes. this is a tuff situation. I understand what you are saying but weight is a sensitive issue for some woman. I have lost weight,gained, and now am losing again! I think you need to know that for some of us, changing our eating or diets is not just that. It is giving up a crutch or addiction. I ate because I needed comfort from the abuse I suffered. I don't want to be overweight, I don't want to be limited physically, but I am. It took a lot of therapy to start changing my eating patterns, your girlfriend may have a similar situation. I hope you two can work it out. good luck!
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I have suffered from severe depression most of my life. I have suffered though metal,physical, and sexual abuse. Only recently gaining control of my life. For the first time, I am living and happy! I also had to deal with panic attacks and anxiety issues, but I have made it through the worse, and am ready to move onto the better. If I can help anyone, I will be glad too.
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