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Originally Posted by stopdog
I think it more likely he was one of those who believed in keeping therapy there. Like these guys:
Triangulate: Did your therapist say something you don’t agree with, don’t understand, or don’t want to accept? Instead of asking about it, just run it past all your friends and family to get their opinion, starting with “My therapist said _____, what do you think that means?” Then bring the results of your survey to the next session and spend the hour talking about what everyone else thinks. Why have that awkward, direct talk when you can divert the objections to your friends and family? (more here)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...y-clients-make
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...i-introduction
The Vessel | Jung At Heart
I greatly dislike the Howes guy - but I think it is a theory some of them put forth |
In a way I kind of agree with them. If you have a problem with something your therapist said it makes perfect sense to talk to the therapist directly about it. And mostly that's the advice people give here. However, sometimes it will be two weeks or more between sessions, and you are supposed to just sit with all those emotions until then? Especially if the therapist doesn't like in between emails, etc.