Hey, UnknownBlue, welcome to PsychCentral (PC). I think I know exactly what you are talking about with the height issue. My stepson is 7 feet 5 and gets the "how is the weather up there?" all the time and professionals don't help him with his business until they've commented personally on his height. A tad rude.

I worked with a Marine general (think about that) who was only 5 feet 6, my height. He was very sensitive to the height thing!

Others are so constantly rude with staring and comments and songs literally banned in Maryland I can too easily imagine where you are coming from!

Do you have a therapist? How have you been trying to work with this?