UB, I don't have that problem as I'm average height. But I did want to validate what you're saying. I hear more water cooler conversations than I care to and women seem to be particularly judgmental when it comes to men's height. So this isn't an imagined problem.

The good news, I don't think it's insurmountable. I would guess there is maybe a hand full of people here who fit the "traditionally attractive" bill. The rest of us have to learn to make do with what we've got. And I'm sure you've got a lot going for you. So try to realize that while yes, being short sucks, you have so many other great traits that people do love you for. The great love or loves of your life aren't going to care about your height. And the few people who are superficial enough to really care about that aren't worth your time anyway.

Cyran0