I can't imagine my T doing anything like that. He's male, I'm female, we're both straight, but... I just don't think he brings that part of himself into the room.

RubyRae, I think your T was unprofessional, and, given the asymmetry of the therapy relationship it's a bit creepy that he behaved that way. I'm guessing that if you've started thinking about returning to therapy, your subconscious mind is trying to put up red flags and warning signs, and that's why you're having these thoughts now, perhaps.

Would you consider trying someone new if you go back?