You're brave to go back and face the situation. Your T just crashed & burned in that session, and I hope she shows some self awareness.

My T never apologizes , and he was trained not too, but I hope yours does. Your boundaries separating work from personal life are sane and sensible.

Your T should read Gavin De Becker's The Gift Of Fear, about stalkers and men who push social norms etc little by little.

My T ( who has 2 kids) once told me (who lost a baby and got a divorce bc of fall out and has zero kids) that he thinks women biologically want children more than men do. After fake-calmly asking him if he was mirroring something I said or if that is his reAl opinion, I told him I didn't know if I could work on baby issues with someone so conventional.

It was just a really bad week/ communication day; we moved past it, and moved on. I didn't lose trust forever, but yet I recall it as not hour finest hour.