The term “leathery & saggy” tells me you are/were young perhaps (???)& do not respect what women’s bodies go thru as a female warrior. Our naked bodies tell another a great deal.
Maybe this person had a big drop in weight which can cause skin to sag. Or maybe this person birthed children into this world.
I guess men can close their eyes & fantasize about air brushed pics they see while they have sex. If men do it, well guess what women do too.

As for women’s junk....basic anatomy words are best. IMHO, To me it shows a sign of intelligence, respect for another & research was done. Now pet names or code words....lol yeah I get that.