Hugs, Mickey. As others have said, you're young, beautiful, intelligent and nice! I'm sure that if you just plonk yourself in the corner of a coffee shop for a few hours, you will catch the attention of plenty of men. No need to do anything. Just sit with a book. Then make eye contact with anyone you like the look of. Smile. If they come over to say, 'What are you reading?', you can chat for a few minutes. If you don't like them, look at your watch, and say, 'Sorry, I have to go'.

What's the worst that can happen? A nice coffee-shop is a friendly, comforting place.

Put a post-it-note on your mirror:

I'm young, beautiful, intelligent and nice.

They aren't your words. We said them!