Well, sometimes people can't help looking. I'm a straight woman, and sometimes I stare at other women's breasts. It's like I'm already looking when I catch myself and look away because I know it's rude. It's not a sexual thing; they're just nice to look at, like a pretty flower, a cute baby, or a cute dog.

But, as a therapist, your T should have been better at controlling his gaze, I think.

In any case, it's definitely, 100% NOT your fault.