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Originally Posted by Skeezyks
Well... I personally don't feel as though you are under any obligation to call this man back.  Yes, I would give the movie to the mutual friend to return. Maybe that will clue the man into the fact that you're not interested.
Given that this man smells & has no teeth his "prospects", so to speak, are probably limited. But you just have to be strong & not give in. If along the way he doesn't get the message then, since he doesn't text or e-mail, perhaps consider sending him a note simply explaining that you no longer wish to be in touch & would prefer he not call again. My personal opinion is you don't owe him a "face-to-face". And giving him one may only encourage him to keep trying. Better to just make a clean break, so to speak, in my opinion. 
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Thank you!!! Oh my gosh. This. This is what I want to do. I know I'm not obligated...I think I just felt guilty because I know he will feel badly, and he *is* a truly nice person. I just DON'T want to anymore. I don't even want to be friends really anymore. A friend of mine had asked me if maybe I could be just friends with him or something. And I felt myself cringe.