When I start worrying if what I say or did in therapy makes me the butt of a joke or dinner table conversation, I remind myself that I am just not that special. That my t would spend her private time thinking or listening to secret tapes about me when she could be spending it with her family is just wishful thinking. Sometimes I wish I were so important to my t that she would focus on me 24/7 but she doesn't and I am pretty important to her.