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Originally Posted by Unhinged88
I wouldn't say I have anxiety over my noisy neighbor. I am frustrated and annoyed. He gets up at 4am and lets the dog out and yells. He bought his kids a drum set. I told him my schedule and said, please try to not do the drums between this and this time. He was understanding. The 4am thing I cant do much about. The kids slamming doors. They're kids. I just, grit my teeth and keep going. I go to work tired some days. But I am thankful I have a place to live. (Compared to my previous situation)
If you talked to your landlord, and its continuing, you could try to explain to him yourself how the floors are thin and what you schedule is. Maybe the message isn't being given by your landlord. Or it might not make a difference. Some people are not considerate. In which case, you will either need to adapt, he might not be there forever or move if its an issue. But your new neighbor could be worse!!
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Thank you.. all of that is a consideration and has been. Every time one moves, I fear what the next person will be like. Though the manager knows I would like it to be more peaceful than noisy, I think she feels it is such a struggle finding qualified tenants, that anything else is secondary or not a concern.
She was supposed to speak to the neighbor today, but looked like it was a workday and that he will be arriving soon around 10:25 pm, as he does. So it should be another noisy night
, as was last night. I don't know when she will catch him ... seems to just want "to run into him".
I'm just tired and has not even lived here long. The frustration is, that I KNOW he must be an inconsiderate person, or he would think about his actions. He comes barreling in, slamming windows, stomping. Last night, banging in kitchen at almost 2:00 am and running disposal, which seems to have a problem, besides other noise. I got all messed up on sleep, again.