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Old Jan 28, 2018, 05:05 AM
Hoyam Hoyam is offline
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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch View Post
That's not a nice situation to be in. Remember as disappointing as it is, attraction is one of those undefined chemistry things where we either 'click' with someone romantically or we don't. It's not because you've done / not done anything, just he doesn't get the chemistry there.
Even though I know you are right. I can't help but believe it's because am not that pretty. If I was better looking he (or any other guy I had previous crushes on) would definitely have feelings for me.
We live in a society where looks is the most important asset a woman could have. Brains/humor/ethics etc comes next. We can't control how we look and to be valued based on that is a shame.
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