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Originally Posted by unaluna
I guess, what were your thought processes when you reached out to him in the first place? Like, lets have lunch once a month? He seems to be thinking more? Maybe if you call him back and kind of explain that you just wanted to keep in touch as friends, instead of letting time slip away with no contact.
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Hi UnaLuna. I saw him at a get together in October, and it was nice to see him. I remembered we were friends, a long time ago (I was 25, he was like, in his 40s), and he was nice. I thought it would be nice to be friends again. But I have basically changed my mind. I just feel really weird and uncomfortable about all this now.
To some others: I will consider a note. But that feels incredibly juvenile, in a sense. I have no idea what I'd say. I will just give the dvd back to the other friend. Maybe I'll ask her what she might do in my shoes. But I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with just not calling back. I am sure I will see him again at some point too, at get togethers, and he'll ask, and then I'll have to say something. The get togethers I'm talking about are a social group I'm part of. Its through a mental health organization. I don't do much of their get togethers, actually.