Focus on the love and commitment your husband has been demonstrating. This may help you in honoring him and adhering to your promise.

It happens all the time that an individual in a relationship runs into someone with whom they hit things off, but that established relationship takes precedent. The second love will have to be set aside, accepting whatever resultant emotions arise.

It may cause hurt to this new man in your life, but he should understand that you’re committed to your husband. Don’t be afraid to lay it out for him. We don’t always get what we want, and I say that with full understanding.

I hope my perspective makes sense; it’s difficult to compose responses on a phone. A’best.