I don't understand. Either your attached or your not. If your not, you can walk away and not think of them again. If you are attached they constantly nag at your mind somehow. It doesn't really bother me except I know one day it will be over. It's like having this person in your life for several years, then poof they are gone. This is hard for me to imagine. I just always want to have contact in a client/therapist relationship. This relationship feels really good and I don't want it to go away.