Been married a little over a year now and from time to time I'll look at the wife's phone. Once or twice I've caught her messaging an old boyfriend and I've voiced my concern. She says I have nothing to worry about and I'm controlling and bring insecure.
Last week we were in garage and somehow the subject came up about having sex and she said she had sex with another man. She told me she cheated and i was hurt and let garage for a few minutes and when I came back she told me she didn't cheat or have sex with another man. I asked why she would even say that and get answer was that in always looking at her phone and maybe if she said she cheated I would stop looking and move on. Now I'm totally confused and don't know what happened, she did admit visiting her old boyfriend but says nothing happen. Please anyone can u get some opinions and replies as to what others think. Thank you