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Old Jan 29, 2018, 02:47 PM
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Hello joey: We here on PC cannot diagnose you. And, honestly, I personally don't think there's enough detail in your post for anyone to offer much in the way of perspective. The fact that your bf doesn't turn you on doesn't, in my opinion, mean anything with regard to your sexual orientation or your mental health. From my perspective it just means either you're no longer attracted to him or your relationship needs work.

I personally don't think that the fact some girls turn you on is necessarily of any great significance either. I believe it is perfectly possible for a person to be completely heterosexual but still find some members of their own gender to be exciting. So, unless there is more to this than what you wrote here, I would say relax. All is well... except perhaps with regard to your relationship with your current bf.

I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

I don't know, of course, if you're here simply seeking advice with regard to this particular concern or if you plan to hang in here with us. However, should you be planning to continue on (we hope you do)... may I suggest you introduce yourself over on PC's New Member Introductions forum? Here's a link:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/new-...introductions/

There's a lot of support that can be available here on PC. The more you post, & reply to other members' posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are the chat rooms where you'll be able to interact with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) So please keep posting!
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