Reassuring as in saying things will be fine etc? Pretty much never.

In fact, it's kinda the opposite -- it's like she takes it upon herself to rake up all the crap I've blocked out and asks me how am I going to deal with whatever crappy thing is coming up.

Reassuring as in saying I'm a good / brilliant / all-round God's gift to humanity kinda thing? On a few (thankfully, rare) occasions that I shut down pretty quickly (usually just staring at her takes care of it).