So, let me get this straight. Your husband no longer desires you but, he likes little girls and has pedophilic porn on his computer or looks at it online and proceeds to beat his meat to it? And this only happens when your 11 year old daughter is under the same roof? How can you NOT know what to do about this? This is DISGUSTING. Wake up! It is not about whether or not you should have compassion toward him. This is a sick and twisted desire for someone to have and furthermore this is not only happening in your house but, it is also happening as a result of your daughter's presence. Drop the politically correct bull, keep your daughter away from this guy at all costs and get away from him yourself! If he has pedophilic porn it is your duty as a citizen of your state to report it to the authorities. Don't stand around, twidling your thumbs or sitting on your hands. This guy has a major problem. Don't let it become your child's problem, your problem or some other person's problem. You know what you need to do. The longer you put it off the worse it will get. I hope you make the right decision and soon.