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Old Jan 30, 2018, 02:28 PM
introspectiveme introspectiveme is offline
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Originally Posted by Sassandclass View Post
Have you thought about the possibility that perhaps this is tied to your self worth? I’ve noticed in myself that at times when I’ve felt low (re:self esteem) those are the times when I have the most perfectionist tendencies.

It’s like I am trying to compensate for how I’m feeling inside and I have to be perfect to do that. Like...being perfect in one area makes me feel better about how UN-perfect I may feel I am in general.

So now, when I feel those perfectionism tendencies creeping in, I take a hard look at myself and see where there’s unhappiness or feelings of insecurity in my life.

Just a thought
I have low sense of self worth and almost zero self esteem most of the time. You are right I have never thought of it that way.
Thanks for this!
Sassandclass