It's true, it is a sickness, but if someone with those tendencies which they were born with - not their fault - has never used child porn [unlike Confused&worrieds husband] and has no desire to abuse children at all, and the thought of doing that makes them feel sick, then you have to feel sorry for someone trapped in that hell. Those people are out there. Then when they reach out for help and try to change their thoughts through therapy, they're reported to the police, blacklisted, their life possibly ruined. As I say, it's a tragedy. I'm not in any way condoning the abuse of children though, by the way. That's a monstrous crime.