by casually, I meant friendship. I'm not looking for another serious relationship. But yes, it would be wrong if this new man doesn't want just friendship, and he's said things that make it obvious he wants more than that. I've always wondered if a woman who's in a committed relationship with a boyfriend, can be just friends with another man. Sometimes I wish it was possible, I seem to get along with men better than women. I'm defensive, only because people in this relationship forum, not all people, but some, are very judgmental without having the information to do so. I'm not polyamourous or polygasmist or whatever, I don't even know how to spell that. I have enough guilt in my life already, and don't need to feel even more guilt. If someone wants to be sarcastic, go ahead, but this is supposed to be a community of people that are here to help other people.